I am the first born daughter of my mother, 3rd born daughter of my father and 15th granddaughter in a line of 16 granddaughters (clearly an Amazon tribe by way of North Carolina). I am a African-in-America-Southern-Soul-Sistah who has an “urban scent” so people want me to be from NY, Oakland—anywhere, but New Bern, NC which claims me and is where I will return to when I am dust. I am a perpetual student of righteous liberation, a dragon slayer for justice, a mommy and two beautiful boys (Taj and Che),a sister, friend, truth teller, light bearer, fire breather, community coach/midwife (be birthing big ideas, solutions, and tools) and servant. I am from Mars and Osun’s bosom which gives me the identity of being a child of all that is fire, love, culture, femininity, headstrong, abundance, fertility and divining. I am in direct community with my ancestors and I elevate them daily by engaging in my reasonable service on this plane, this lifetime.
My journey has been a constant reminder of my cosmic/divinely destined role of teacher, student, guide, midwife, encourager, broker, translator, advocate and activist. My “work” has called me to careers in higher education, the non-profit sector, philanthropy and consultancy. I love being a member of and/or facilitating communities of practice which translates to me having a high tolerance for messiness or bumbling when people are learning and growing together across lines of difference and complexity. I am called to support transitions for people and for organizations which means often giving folks the opportunity to give themselves permission to be bold, to take risk, to claim their place or space or to let go.
I believe in the power of women and sacred spaces and so I am unimaginably compelled by the idea and potential of Standing in Our Power (SiOP). SiOP is about creating those sacred spaces for women of color who lead, lean, cajole and create safe righteous places for our communities to be whole and just. To have what Ifa/Yoruba calls “Egbe”– a collective of your kindred where you learn, support, protect and build with your tribe is beautiful, it is power and it is very necessary. Building the space, holding the space, calling sisters to the space and recognizing how necessary this space if for the liberation of our communities and for those women who lead that process.
What do I imagine is possible because of SiOP?
I imagine a bold reclaiming of our multifaceted identities and to have that reclaiming be full of new meaning, new ways of being and new ways of reanimating our connections with each other and building our collective strength. Because our identities, narratives, dreams, bodies and spirits have been co-opted over and over again, we need to be the architects of the vehicle to our own liberation and empowerment; it is critical that the space we come to be crafted by us as well. If we are going to continue to accept the call to stand on the shoulders of our ancestors to be about the work of liberating all our people with all our hard angles, soft spots and intersectionality, then we must be wiling to create those sacred spaces that nurture, support, refine and embolden us to operate with a sense of agency that reflects the complexity of our identities and our work.
I am looking forward to this journey. To connecting and being in community with a new collective of powerful women, to deepening the connections and love I have for the sistars I know in this circle and for being bold together — Tribe recognizes Tribe…….Ase!
Omisade is a founding member of a Triangle Area African American Giving Circle called NGAAP, The Next Generation of African American Philanthropist that directly addresses the “supply/demand” paradigm inherent in philanthropy that is connected to issues of power and privilege. She has served on various non profit boards including stone circles and the Fund for Southern Communities. She currently serves on the board for The Beautiful Project and SpiritHouse. In addition, Omisade was selected to be a member of the Core Faculty for the Leadership Practice. The Leadership Practice is a collaborative partnership between the Asset-based Community Development Institute of Northwestern University and the national office of Public Allies which provides Asset-based Community Develop (ABCD) technical assistance to AmeriCorps programs nationwide.Omisade believes in the interconnectedness of spirituality and activism and the mighty and righteous work of indigenous leaders tethered to local communities and small organizations. She resides in Durham, NC with her amazing sons Che and Taj.